My mother-in-law Myrna drove down to Miami this past weekend to enjoy a couple of days off. After cooking pan seared tilapia with a cilantro sauce that I made up (my wife’s favorite) we decided to head off to the Deering Estate in Palmetto Bay. As soon as we got there we witnessed a Hindu wedding ceremony right from its start. It looked awesome, the colors, the music, the energy. This is a picture of the groom in its horse riding down the path to meet his bride….
Sadly, this is the God whom they were also venerating…
The weirdest rendition of an elephant that I have ever seen.
One of the things that impressed me was the spiritual emphasis of the whole ritual. They invoked the presence of a God to purify and cleanse the event. They continued with more traditions throughout the ceremony, which by the way, was going to last 4 days.
After watching this unfold I thought to myself how did these people come to believe in a God that they crafted out of bronze? It was so sad. So sad that they believe in a God who doesn’t exist. So sad they are deceived by the devil into thinking that this elephant will give their life meaning. So sad that this couple would begin to build their marriage on such shaky foundation. So sad that probably very few people will tell them about Jesus…
I saw them and said nothing. I just watched. I respected their beliefs. I wondered when will be the time that they will hear the gospel.



Hi Carlos, I came across your blog as I was surfing around from Jorge’s blog… anyway, as I read your thoughts about the Hindu wedding you guys witnessed I have to say that I appreciate your honesty when you say that you “said nothing…Just watched…and wondered when they would hear the message of the gospel.” I can understand…it wasn’t the right time. How do you interrupt someone’s wedding to share the gospel? Many times I ask myself the same question… how do I share the gospel with someone I know desperately needs it if it’s not the right time? It’s frustrating because it’s our responsibility. I wonder if it’s because I lack boldness or the ability to find a way to do it. But, no…sometimes it’s just not the right time. We can only pray that when it IS the right time whoever is appointed to share the gospel with them WILL. And, if it’s ever us who are appointed to share the gospel we WILL too. I pray, as Paul did in Ephesians 6:19-20 “Pray also for me, that whenever I open my mouth words may be given me so that I will fearlessly make known the mystery of the Gospel…Pray that I may declare it fearlessly, as I should.”
God bless you my brother. Give Cassie a BIG hug for me. I love you guys!
Man…I am so proud that you are my husband. Who would have ever thought that I would be married to a man who can be strong and tell my family that it is wrong that they worship a false god. I love that you are my spiritual leader, but I love that you also speak truth to my family. I know you didn’t witness to those people, but what you did say to my mom was so important and I will never forget that day on the rocking chairs of that old historic home. Thanks for being who you are…and loving my family as much as I do. I love you…